Over the years I’ve become a full on etymology guy and the most recent destination my word-based journey has arrived at has to do with the violent undertone of common day-to-day phrases.
Which is worth exploring, not because these terms are ineffective in communicating thier intent, but because of how good they are at convincing us to perceive harm intentionally done unto others as normal or “run of the mill.”
If we are to truly become people of peace, if we are to actually care for those around us, then we should abandon the sort of phrases that inevitably make us dull to or, in some cases completely unaware of violence as a strange, and avoidable phenomenon.
In order to clear the air and provide a solution to our polemic problem I’ve supplied a small list of bellicose phrases, and a corresponding peaceful alternative:
“There are multiple ways to skin this cat.” — “There are many ways to sew this hat.”
“Kill two birds with one stone” — “Feed two birds with one scone.”
“Shoot your shot.” — “Give it all you got.”
“Silver bullet” — “Magic potion”
“Deadline” — “Due date”
As with any list I’ve created this collection is not complete. If you have a phrase you’ve turned peaceful that you’d like to share please send me an email (email on about page).